Daughter dating older man advice
I had touched on a similar topic last year in my post my boyfriend has kept his online dating profile active.While I still believe what I wrote there, I’m finding that many of the women who are contacting me are not at the point where they are sure if the man is their “boyfriend” or not.
We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.You decided to meet and on your first date things go great.You enjoy each others’ company, enjoy the same things and over the next month or so you start to date more seriously. However there is one problem: his dating profile is still active.Give him another month to try harder and if he fails, walk away.He’ll probably let you go and resume his new life on I had a man write me from whose wife had passed 3 weeks earlier – they had a 38 year marriage – and she died from a recently diagnosed cancer!The guy’s been married for 30 years, his wife dies in June and he started dating online 2 months later?
My mom didn’t even think of meeting another man until about 3 years after my father passed away. How could you be anything BUT a rebound following a long-term marriage?
I made that need known last weekend in a calm, rational way.
In your book, you said that if a guy isn’t seeing you more than once a week by the 3 months point, he probably isn’t interested in a serious relationship.
If he’s hesitating because he’s concerned about commitment, this approach could scare him off.
In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.
Men are slower to commit and many also need their ego “stroked”.