Single not dating
Why endure the heartache and waste his and some poor girl's time by starting something that most likely wouldn’t work out anyway?After his initial premise for singlehood ended, he got quiet.
You are not totally sure, but you think the word was…football. Before you know it you can actually understand a sentence or two. The silence is abruptly interrupted with the subject that you have been waiting for since you became a fly on the wall…girls…dating…and what guys are thinking about the two. As he begins to talk you realize that guys ponder way more than emotions.She felt he should know her better than that, because lilies were her favorite flower…not roses.Many examples followed, but the final conclusion was that he did not feel that getting into a relationship would benefit him.Under his breath you barely hear these words, “No one likes to fail…I don’t want to fail.” “You’re right…no one likes to fail, but no matter what any of us guys do we will all do exactly that.” A guy says from behind his saddened, but stern eyes.He continues to convey how he feels that no matter how hard a guy tries, it won’t be good enough in the end any how.I invite ladies to be a fly on the wall and listen to the words of their confusing masculine counterparts.
You are in a sparsely furnished living room with even less décor on the walls; pizza boxes and pop cans are unevenly distributed in various spots in the room.
They are guys -- flawed humans who just have not figured it out yet.
It was good to be a fly on the wall for just a moment, but you would really like to know what that last guy was going to say…what are guys looking for?
He would always fall short of the ideal, and that just did not sit well with him.
After hearing all of the things that had been uttered you realize there was one guy who had not yet talked. Some of the guys noticed as well and they asked him what his deal was.
Except there’s something a little bit different about how you view the men in your life.